The Solution! The Third Talk®

“Never in the history of mankind has this amount of pornography, in such a hardcore medium, been so available to anyone at any age…”
Teens think porn is sex-ed

Teens have a sneaky feeling that porn is the real sex-ed, the good stuff that we’re not telling them. It’s not, of course…
The Third Talk on Fox News

The Third Talk on Fox News
Can We Laugh about Online Pornography?
Can we laugh about online pornography? Yes, we can! Personable and without colorful language, John Van Arnam has been speaking about the harms of adult content with parents and their children for years. His style is practical and he puts everyone at ease. Watch excerpts from John’s appearances to see what we mean. Want to […]
It’s time to get your priorities straight

Is this you? “I really want to talk to my kids about this, but there never seems to be a good time.” These are excuses.
What drives teens to get more aggressive about sex

By the time our kids are teens, they’ve learned what sex is and they’ve absorbed the myth that everyone is having sex, and…
The Third Talk® on ABC 13 News

News 13’s interview with John Van Arnam
What to do when your kids won’t talk with you

Some of you have told me stories about your child refusing to talk about porn. Hands over ears, fleeing the room, slamming the door.
Boy & Mom Followup Conversation after The Third Talk® Consultation

After a The Third Talk™ meeting with John Van Arnam, as a family, the son and the Mom agreed to come in and speak about their experience
The pros and cons of technology

Having more or less money doesn’t make a person better or worse; it does change their ability to affect others. Technology works like this.